End-of-Life Services

Creative Death Planning, Coaching & Celebrant Services

What is a Death Doula / End-of-Life Planner?

Cam is a NEDA-affiliated death doula and Humanist celebrant and end-of-life planner.  He specializes in working with both the terminally ill and their families, as well as well populations who have the foresight to plan for the end of their life.

“End-of-life doulas (EOLD) provide non-medical holistic support and comfort to the dying person and their families, which may include education and guidance as well as emotional, spiritual and practical care.”  Source: National End-of-Life Doula Alliance

Our Approach to the End-of-Life

We provide services as a contribution to a small but growing movement that is helping to open up the conversation about death.

Through offering a celebratory and inclusive set of services, we seek to empower the communities we serve by reminding our clients that death does not need to be approached with fear and regret.
We offer light-hearted yet serious, meaningful offerings in close partnership with our clients that do not seek to lessen the gravity of death, but rather to open communication, connection and support even after the final breath is drawn.

All of us will die– through our services we seek to help others live gracefully in the shadow of death, rather than living somberly in fear of it.

Primary Services

Celebrant & Memorial Planning

Cam is sponsored by the Humanist Society to provide non-religious celebrant services for end-of-life & funeral ceremonies, weddings, baby-naming ceremonies, and other major life events. As per the Humanist Society: ” [Humanist] celebrants are committed to humanism and not bound by a traditional religion and its dogma, therefore they are able to provide custom-made ceremonies imbued with personal meaning and honor the shared humanity and values of those involved.” We are here to help you organize and plan with a range of services including:

Coordinated planning with the dying and their loved ones

Creative design elements for memorial handouts and keepsakes

Eulogy and written content

Live sound for outdoor or private events

Custom combinations including services listed below:

Death Planning

Guidance for organizing your affairs

We offer small group gatherings or 1 : 1 meetings to facilitate discussion and decision-making for you and your family, including advance directives, living wills, and a variety of other considerations specific to your life.  Be prepared: death can come at any time.  Taking steps to avoid leaving your loved ones hanging will help immensely for your peace of mind and theirs, too. Soon to be available as an online course!

Ghostwriting*

Assistance with memorials, eulogies, obituaries and autobiographical content

Ever wanted to write your own story, but never felt like you could do it on your own?  We can help. Regardless of length or format, we will spend the time to help you say what you need to say.  Writing is not for everyone; let us help you deliver your wisdom as clearly as possible.  For an example of Cam’s writing, read this blog post written about the death of his mother.

Afterthoughts*

Personalized Audio & Video Messages for Your Loved Ones

Whether you’re a new parent who just wants to create a time capsule, or you just received a terminal diagnosis, leave a clear message of deep and profound meaning that will mean the world to your loved ones. Examples include personalized messages to address a gathering at your service, an audio or video addendum to your will, or simply a keepsake message for children or spouse.

Other Niche Services

Musical Retrospective*

Audible Life Records to share with loved ones at any stage in life, accompanied by your favorite music

A truly unique, creative offering for the music-minded:  tell your story in your own voice accompanied by the music that has guided you through your life.  We will explore your life story in five year increments,  all linked together and seamlessly mixed with and interlinking original composition by Cam; one unified audio experience, built around the story (and soundtrack) of your life.

Self-Care Coaching for the Caregivers

An opportunity for caregivers to get the help they need for their own self-care

It’s not uncommon for caretakers to put their own wellbeing to the side as they prepare for the death of a loved one.  Cam is a certified health coach and trainer to help provide resources and accountability for your self-care practice in the shadow of death and grief.  Caring for the dying is hard– let us help you take care of yourself; that’s what your dying would want for you.

*Disclaimer

If you or your loved one have been diagnosed with a disorder that may influence or hinder your memory, the above services marked with an asterisk (*) should be reconsidered.

We are eager to ensure that all recollections can be reliably referenced as factual for the wellbeing of you and your family.

We do not provide legal advice and our working together does not create an attorney-client relationship.

We do not provide financial advice or advanced estate planning advice, nor do we accept any willed inheritance from any party with whom we work.

We do not provide medical or psychological advice or care, but will gladly help you find someone if you need it.

We do not make any decisions for you or your family members, and we always seek third party validation and consultation where needed.

Interested in beginning your journey?

Planning the end of your life does not have to wait until you have a terminal diagnosis.  Uncovering the deepest, most meaningful parts of your life can happen at any stage, whether you’re a new parent, were just married, or you are actually at the end of your life.

Click the button below to be redirected to our consultation booking page, where you can fill us in on what you’d like to do, and how we can begin to develop a plan– together.

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